Silence...

The best way to appease someone is to be a silent listener...n again best way to perpetuate harmonious sphere is to be silent..
Though it is difficult at times to interpret silence..but certainly it holds more meaning than speech...

Anytime it enunciates more than words...Silence allows u to self introspect, to overcome ur weak points n to ammend on same...However it should not be confounded with abstinence which is refrainment or forbearance...Silence is by choice under no predicamant, vicissitude or domination...

It does helps u overcome arduous span as it makes u strong n lets u allure ur foes calmly...It edifies different morals n yes prime value-Patience...Silence do leads to pateince coz now u start evaluating evry action minutely n adjudicate its impact..In a way it augments your endurance n ability to combat d circumstances...

A quiet rumination, of even tough situation, like of which keeps comming quite often, yields favourable results. Seemingly baffling problems turn into simple ones and their solutions appear within reach.

Lastly as u embrace silence, your words are efficacious n hold dominion since words uttered after a spell of silence are given more importance on the presumption that they must be the result of some serious contemplation...n it owes u approbation, recognition n veneration...it makes u self sufficient allowing to enjoy the bliss of your own thoughts...

Sufferings

They say that pain is inevitable although sufferings are optional...but for some people sufferings too bcome inevitable..sometimes there are so much adversities, so much negativities that life seems to cease and all thoughts comming to a halt..thats where sufferings become irresistible...

It seems as if whole world is against u, tryng to harm u, yearning for ur bad...

U struggle n struggle to try n change the situation or try to get rid of it, n in an attempt for the same u loose ur own self...u deviate from ur preset goals n wander..n thats where battle of perceptions begins...u start feelng insecure n pessimism bounds u...then u opt for the easiest way - thats refrainment..u restrict urself n go for abstinence unknowingly coz u r afraid to face the situation...n hold untenable apprehensions for the same that haunts u even more...


But the biggest challenge that still remains is to overcome it n try to withhold the present pace of time...though its not that easy as it seems...it entails a very strong will power, determination n persistence...n its possible only wen one is willin to surmount its irrevocable mindset...:)
N once u achieve it, ur journey becomes easier n hassle free...


Its den a juncture dat lets u win over ur torment state n enables u to accept ur suffering as ur option rather dan obligation...!!!

N to sum up..."No problem lasts forever. No matter how permanently fixed in d centre of our lives it may seem, watever we experience in dis ever changing life is sure to pass...even PAIN..."